It’s time to learn tangible tools to control your anxiety, so that it stops controlling you!
Feeling anxious is uncomfortable, painful and difficult to manage in every which way.
Your body is on overdrive.
You can’t think straight.
Everything feels like it’s crashing down at any moment and you just can’t stop the chaos.
Yet, while you’re feeling these obsessive worries of the unknown and the inability to breathe, all you want is for the uncomfortable feelings to go away.
You don’t need to know how to control your anxiety naturally while you’re in the height of it. You just need relief.
In fact, trying to “figure it out” is working against you by increasing your anxiety. So instead of trying to think your way through it, use a tool or two that decreases your anxiety symptoms first. You can explore the root causes later, if needed. The following tools are designed for just that…to alleviate some of the pain of your anxiety.
You can try one or more and record what helps you most, so you know what “remedy” you need in future moments of high stress, feeling anxious or having a panic attack.
1. Look Down:
Neuroscience has proven that looking up activates your nervous system more than looking down. So, if you have anxiety aim to keep your gaze at or below eye level, still keeping your chin parallel to the floor. Additionally, for most people looking up or looking down with a tucked chin results in compression of the cervical spine and constricts the breath, which increases activation of your central nervous system.
2. Get Embodied:
This means not just generally moving, but rather getting connected to your body in conscious and mindful ways.
That’s all it takes!
3. One-Two Breathing (with visualization):
Many of us are mouth-breathers. Breathing in and out through your mouth increases the activation of your central nervous system. Try this breathing technique, that’s proven to calm your system waaaaay down.
4. Look at Fractals:
Science has proven that looking at repeating patterns (also called fractals) in nature, art or architecture can create a calming effect on your brain, thereby calming your body. Try taking 20 minutes in an environment with visuals of snowflakes, repeating swirls in a painting or ocean waves all help to take you away from stress. There are tons of these online and you can just flip through them, noticing your body shifts as you focus your attention on the movement of the photos.
5. Ground your Body:
Laying on the floor and feeling the firmness of the floor supporting your body can help to reduce anxiety. Stay present to your body – noticing which parts of it are touch the floor and which parts don’t. Consider doing a brief mental body scan to notice what sensations are in each part of your body or try the breathing technique listed above. Even better? Put some weight on top of you while you lay down (a weighted blanket, a sandbag, or a yoga bolster) to increase the calming effect.
6. Take a Forest Bath:
As strange as it may seem, being near trees and plant-life has been shown to enhance your mental health and reduce anxious feelings. People who walked for approximately 20 minutes in woodsy areas were shown to have lowered stress hormones. While you’re at it, you may want to try a walking meditation like this one.
7. Do Something Creative:
Refocusing your attention on creative activities that use your hands helps to reduce the obsessing that anxiety can often induce. The activity you choose might be something traditionally creative like drawing, painting, or writing…or you may choose something less traditional like cooking, craft-making, molding things out of clay or coloring in and adult coloring book. All of these creative activities help to reduce your mind and responses to anxiety.
8. Get present to RIGHT NOW:
Notice if you’re playing what I like to call the “If-Then Game.” You’re 10 steps ahead of the present moment and spinning about things that may or may not happen (if this then that and if that then this…and so on). These are made up scenarios that aren’t grounded in any reality. They are grounded in your fear. However, your brain doesn’t know this and it sends signals to your body to go into high danger alert mode.
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If you liked this post, you might also enjoy reading: 12 Super Healthy Ways to Worry, 13 Quick Things you can do to be Less Anxious, and 11 Happiness Boosters.
